What if?
Lately there has been things to remind me about how fast the time flies and yet how short our lives are. There is SO much you can fit into those years!!
These past five years have been very hard on us. Lots of changes and mental growth. Can't believe it's gonna be 10 years since we got married September 2011 !!!! That means we met like 15 years ago or something... comforting to realize that there is a reason why I feel like I look older....
So what is it? Is it that you can't keep up with time? Can't keep up with changes or can't keep up with the world around you? Suddenly you realize 10 years passed by like that. You start wondering what if??
What if I never would have gone to that restaurant in Erottaja (translation to English would be something like Separator... ) called Kerma (Cream was the name of the restaurant... come on how yucky... blaaah.... 
DDD). Well I did go there, so did Kaj although he never normally went to places like that. Sure we were the tallest people in the restaurant... easy to spot each other. I was gonna go and talk to him, but he was faster than me and came to talk to me first... rest is history...
DDD). Well I did go there, so did Kaj although he never normally went to places like that. Sure we were the tallest people in the restaurant... easy to spot each other. I was gonna go and talk to him, but he was faster than me and came to talk to me first... rest is history... What if we never would have had that first child? We tried... didn't know what was wrong. Nothing was found wrong... then when we kind of gave up.... and the rest is history
What if we would not have bought the two lots in the middle of nowhere....
We build a beautiful house by ourselves, our own hands!!! Really, we worked HARD... Thinking that later on we'd build another house on the other lot...
but halfway of the process the said not permit to build although it had kind of been promised before.... It was a time for a change.... Australia here we come!!
What if we had bought this house in Carseldine? Lovely, lovely house with great commuting and close to Bruce highway for Kaj to get to work and with a separate entrance and kitchen for a nanny or relatives visits..... It wouldn't have been so easy to get out of Australia......
But here we are now.... wondering about the future...
Can't help but thinking about the what ifs. How different things might have been? Not that I want to change a thing!!! Still maybe, just maybe... there was some higher guidance along? Or how come all these things happened when they did and had such an impact on our life?
I'll leave you to that thought...
Ai teilläkin lähestyy 10v hääpäivä, mekin juhlitaan sitä jo tämän vuoden heinäkuussa. Noita "what if" on aika jännä välillä miettiä - toisinaan elämässä tapahtuu enemmän kuin olisikaan osannut arvata... Itse en olisi neljä vuotta sitten ikinä uskonut että meillä on nyt kaksi lasta ja asutaan Australiassa. - Et varmaan olisi säkään omasta elämästä arvannut etukäteen kaikkia jännittäviä käänteitä.
Saakos teille ehdottaa seuraavia mahdollisia jänniä mutkia elämään?
Sarita
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Tervehdys vaan täältä rutikuivasta ja aurinkoisesta "Pertistä" =)
Ah, kuin ihania kuvia. Sitä ollaan niin nuoria ja kauniita. On siinä ollunna hommaa teillä noiden rakennus projektien kanssa. Muistan ite kun ostimme aikoinaan vanhan röttelön ja kunnostimme sen ja pihamaan totaalisesti *huoh* Vuosien työ.
Täältäkin voitaisiin ehdotella noita mutkia ;D Eikös ne sano että "Vierivä kivi ei sammaloidu" =)
Terkut täältä meiltä kaikilta sinne kaikille!! Joko se lumi alkaa sulaa?
Ison halauksen kera, Sari xoxox
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